Saturday, 13 January 2007

The 'D' Word

I love you but I must Divorce you she said this morning, as we cuddled.

Well, the odds always were against us. It's really just a recognition that our relationship isn't a marriage any more. Isn't it?

So how come I'm crying?

Someone left the cake out in the rain, I guess.

13 comments:

Jeremy Brown said...

Hey, Zoe. It's an unfair predicament for you and your wife to have been thrust into. I wish you the best.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry, Zoe...

Matt A said...

I think what you need (amongst other stuff, of course) is here.

eeniemeenie said...

zoe, im sorry to hear your news
you are obviously a brave and goodhearted individual and i'm sure things will work out well for you in the end.

might not be the right time to say it but remember there are plenty of cake mixes on the shelves

Alan Kellogg said...

So now you enter the undiscovered country. The land of mystery where your previous experience is for naught, and your life rests uneasy upon a shifting foundation.

She can no longer be your wife. She can still be your best friend. Go to her with this question, "I'm new to this, how does a woman make love to a man?"

You have much to learn, might as well learn from someone who knows what she's doing.

God be with you.

Itinerant said...

Zoe, there's nothing to say that can possibly mitigate the hurt, but perhaps the sharing of the pain will help a little.

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Breezy said...

I'm so sorry :( You'll be in my thoughts. I hope that you can transition to a strong friendship.

Shaz said...

Hi Zoe, relatively new to your blog (Via Medication Time) but I wish yo well having been in a similar situation myself many years ago. Time does heal & a new future will lie ahead, good luck. Shaz x x

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry Zoƫ. Please acceept my offer of something you are famous for: A BIG (((Hug))).

Leah

Anonymous said...

Sad, sad news, Zoe. It does seem inevitable, though, doesn't it? I am going through the same thing myself at the moment. Warmest wishes from someone who considers themselves still...
Your friend,

Nica :)

Jessica said...

Let's hope you find the recipe again.

Amanda said...

Zoe, I want to say that you have a lovely website here full of wonderful info. And also, I want to wish you the best because you only deserve the vary best. Your a beautiful person Zoe. And I love you for that. Your brave and you only speak the truth. and I honor you for that. This is your time Zoe. Im giving you something that you normally give everyone else you see. (consider your self huged tightly and loved by all.(hugs)

Love always your friend,
Amanda (AKA Mandie)

morgan said...

Ah Zoe, a big hug to you. You and Carmel have been through so much in the past 18 months, and it's not been by choice for either of you.

Remember that she still loves you, even though the nature of your relationship has changed profoundly.

You both deserve all our best wishes for the future.